tonight is my 4th nights dat i counldn't sleep well..
I keep thinking of ah gong's case, to leave or not to leave from singapore...
So i had a msn chat with My dearest cousin Sis who staying @Hongkong to gain some advise.
YapSiewKuan^_^ says:
sis, i plan to bring ah gong go back china next year to visit his relative, do u think is fine?Dad not agreed cox he said ah gong very old already. & afraid that he can't afford the weather & the flight pressure. Ah gong very disappointed, and cried in front of me. Cox b4 i told daddy, i promised him that i will bring him home. i make him disappointed. He told me dis is his last wish in his life.
YapSiewKuan^_^ says:
can u imagine, ur grandpa tears drop in front of u & told u that he really wish to go home?i'm suffering with this for few days already. i'm feeling guity if i dun bring him home
sis, i plan to bring ah gong go back china next year to visit his relative, do u think is fine?Dad not agreed cox he said ah gong very old already. & afraid that he can't afford the weather & the flight pressure. Ah gong very disappointed, and cried in front of me. Cox b4 i told daddy, i promised him that i will bring him home. i make him disappointed. He told me dis is his last wish in his life.
YapSiewKuan^_^ says:
can u imagine, ur grandpa tears drop in front of u & told u that he really wish to go home?i'm suffering with this for few days already. i'm feeling guity if i dun bring him home
Zoey @ GKH says:
do u know the meaning of his last wish of his life ??he would rather end his life in China
YapSiewKuan^_^ says:
correct,with wat u said! THAT's wat ah gong told me even he die there oso he feel happy.
do u know the meaning of his last wish of his life ??he would rather end his life in China
YapSiewKuan^_^ says:
correct,with wat u said! THAT's wat ah gong told me even he die there oso he feel happy.
Zoey @ GKH says:
and I think ur dad dun want this to be happen , to be a SON position
YapSiewKuan^_^ says:
ya i know.
Zoey @ GKH says:
after he is the daddy of ur dad , dun forget this point. He is crying is one thing,but dun forget that wat is the priority. The one who make decision shld the son of him. okie think from this angle,put urself in ur dad's hoes. then u know wat he meant, be pratical,coz ur dad dun want to be regret forever
and I think ur dad dun want this to be happen , to be a SON position
YapSiewKuan^_^ says:
ya i know.
Zoey @ GKH says:
after he is the daddy of ur dad , dun forget this point. He is crying is one thing,but dun forget that wat is the priority. The one who make decision shld the son of him. okie think from this angle,put urself in ur dad's hoes. then u know wat he meant, be pratical,coz ur dad dun want to be regret forever
YapSiewKuan^_^ says:
i fully understand
i fully understand
Zoey @ GKH says:
after u guy r hokkien. hokkien people is care abt the face a lot,especially MEN ,
YapSiewKuan^_^ says:
yup correct. That's wat he told me few days ago about the face
Zoey @ GKH says:
tht's why , sometimes u have to weight the situation and see wat is more important. Not just to fullfil one desire and sacrifice the whole people 's hope. Acutally not just that,u listen first. Okie if ah going really go to China and he feel ill after the horney there [ China
Zoey @ GKH says:
then who will get worry ??firstly ur dad , and the dad 's family & then come to us,my mum , the rest of autie. And then u will be the person to be blame forever.
Zoey @ GKH says:
and there is guarantee too , I will hate u too for that time. i just being honest to u. even though is only my mum 's dad,but i'm sure we r close
Zoey @ GKH says:
understood ??because for u , u will look at the shorter view as ah gong is in fronT of u . Yet ur dad is looking at longer view. As u know his body health is deterioting according to my mum said so.
YapSiewKuan^_^ says:
okay, i will take ur advise. I told him if he really can't go back, i will back to KL next year to keep him accompany. He said okay but still repeated samething as he wish to go back. haha! Stubborn like my dad & me too..hehhe
after u guy r hokkien. hokkien people is care abt the face a lot,especially MEN ,
YapSiewKuan^_^ says:
yup correct. That's wat he told me few days ago about the face
Zoey @ GKH says:
tht's why , sometimes u have to weight the situation and see wat is more important. Not just to fullfil one desire and sacrifice the whole people 's hope. Acutally not just that,u listen first. Okie if ah going really go to China and he feel ill after the horney there [ China
Zoey @ GKH says:
then who will get worry ??firstly ur dad , and the dad 's family & then come to us,my mum , the rest of autie. And then u will be the person to be blame forever.
Zoey @ GKH says:
and there is guarantee too , I will hate u too for that time. i just being honest to u. even though is only my mum 's dad,but i'm sure we r close
Zoey @ GKH says:
understood ??because for u , u will look at the shorter view as ah gong is in fronT of u . Yet ur dad is looking at longer view. As u know his body health is deterioting according to my mum said so.
YapSiewKuan^_^ says:
okay, i will take ur advise. I told him if he really can't go back, i will back to KL next year to keep him accompany. He said okay but still repeated samething as he wish to go back. haha! Stubborn like my dad & me too..hehhe
Zoey @ GKH says:
after all t are both dad and son..anyway , u r kind enuf and listen to his grumbling [ah gong]. Keep it up and as old people do need someone to accompany.Coz we will get old one day
YapSiewKuan^_^ says:
haha. agreed he is super grumbling
after all t are both dad and son..anyway , u r kind enuf and listen to his grumbling [ah gong]. Keep it up and as old people do need someone to accompany.Coz we will get old one day
YapSiewKuan^_^ says:
haha. agreed he is super grumbling
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That's a reason y i always listen to her since i was young till now, she is really great & matured enough. She is only d one dat i really recpect with & i ve learned a lof from her. She is a Cathay Flight attendant, she is only d one who can feeds her family & bought them a apartment, house & etc from a very poor WOODHOUSE that i stayed with her 15thyears b4.
I love her & need her so much, but somehow she is too far away from me..
"Xiao Zhu"=Small pig
That's how they calling me @home...
